Brian Allain

let your life tell you

From “Let Your Life Speak: Listening for the Voice of Vocation” by Parker J. Palmer I was in my early thirties when I began, literally, to wake up to questions about my vocation. By all appearances, things were going well, but the soul does not put much stock in appearances. Seeking a path more purposeful […]

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“Do not ask, do not tell.”

From “Walk with Me: A Journey through the Landscape of Trauma” by Ellen Corcella In the mornings, I woke up to a pretense of normalcy. My mother had oatmeal, toast, and orange juice on the kitchen table: my father read the newspaper; and we were shuffled off to school. My father conspired in the cover-up.

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Pivotal moments

From “Sacred Compass: The Way of Spiritual Discernment” by J. Brent Bill There aren’t any set rules for writing spiritual stories. Your story can be as brief or long as you want. If you’re unsure where to start, pick one of the pivotal moments in your life, a time that you found life changing. You

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You must leave home

From “Falling Upward: A Spirituality for the Two Halves of Life” by Richard Rohr The very first sign of a potential hero’s journey is that he or she must leave home, the familiar, which is something that may not always occur to someone in the first half of life. (In fact, many people have not

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What’s wrong with them? 

From “Mindset: The New Psychology of Success” by Carol S. Dweck, PhD When I was a young researcher, just starting out, something happened that changed my life. I was obsessed with understanding how people cope with failures, and I decided to study it by watching how students grapple with hard problems. So I brought children

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